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I'm A Christian & Sometimes I Swear A Little...Or A Lot

I'm A Christian & Sometimes I Swear A Little...Or A Lot

February 19, 2018

Can I just be honest with you all? It's true. The fact of the matter is...sometimes I just really like the way a swear word sounds rolling off the tongue. It feels so good! Especially when I'm angry; there is just nothing like the way a swear word feels when your angry. 

I know that sounds awful and so "un-christian" like but truth is, this is my safe place so I want to know it's ok when I cuss a little or A LOT. Because the thing is...I do. I wish I could say with confidence that I wasn't a "cussing Christian" but if I'm being all in genuine with you...this is the truth of the matter. 

I grew up in a house hold that never heard the echoing's of ANY bad words, let alone a curse word. So when I "became an adult" and started truly "discovering" myself I found it incredibly satisfying to drop the "f" bomb every now and again. It's funny because I can remember the first time I ever said a swear word; I was 15 years old and I had just received my drivers permit, I remember driving with my mom in the passenger seat when all of the sudden somebody cut me off. 

"HOLY SHIT!" I screamed

"TESSA" my mother yelled with the utmost surprised look on her face!

And trust me the words surprised ME probably just as much as they had her but in the same breath I kind of felt a sense of exhilaration. 

Like that was kind of fun!

From that moment forward I have always been a "closet curser;" sheepishly muttering words under my breath to feel that same sense of of exhilaration I did so many moons ago. Now please don't hear me wrong...I don't condone this type of speech and do my very VERY best to never curse in front of my children. I actually hate watching a show or movie that spews out curse words like they're this forsaken way of speaking. But I thought I would shine the light on this topic to destroy the shame that so many of us feel for not having it "all together." 

Let me speak frank here...I will never have all my shit together. I just won't. And neither will you. The closest we will ever get to perfection is looking at the face of Jesus Christ. We are made perfect because of our Heavenly Father and it is only through Him that you will find your true worth. 

"For God, who said, 'Let there be light in the darkness,' has made this light shine in our hearts so we could know the glory of God that is seen the face of Jesus Christ. We now have this light shining in our hearts, but we ourselves are like fragile clay jars containing this great treasure. This makes it clear that our great power is from God, not from ourselves." 2 Corinthians 4: 6-7

As always, thank you for stopping by! xoxo, Tessa

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Well it looks like it’s time folks! 🤗 my buns may be flapping in the wind with this super trendy gown but we are so incredibly excited to meet our baby boy! Prayers appreciated!!! 🙏🏼 Sometimes it’s in the simple pieces that become your favorite part of a room! I can’t wait to share where I got so many of these nursery gems! I’ll be linking them all in my blogpost on Monday!
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Ps. I did get a number of brand partnerships with this room makeover...however there is a lot that I bought on my own! Like A LOT! I want to be candid with you all and make that known beforehand while also making you aware of major ways I’ve saved for this project! You don’t have to spend a ton of 💰 to get the look you want, you just have to know where to look 👀 Today marks 38 weeks and I really can’t even believe that we made it this far! This is the longest I’ve kept any of my babies in and I am so extremely thankful for the extra time he’s had to “cook.” As anxious as I am to meet him, I am equally at peace with God’s timing in all of this and know that His hand is at work: guiding and protecting this little life. ⠀⠀
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So to all of you that have stayed up to date with our journey and continued praying over our sweet boy....THANK YOU! I truly believe because of all your prayers spoken in unison my hearts cry has been heard. I am beyond thankful for all of you! ❤️
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#38weeks #preggers #maternity #pregnant #expecting #babyboy #maternityfashion I asked and you answered! Baby boys nursery reveal will be this upcoming Monday! At least I hope I can get it ready for you by then! 🤪 I can’t wait for you to see this space, it’s quickly become one of my favorite corners of our home simply for its lack of chaos! ⠀⠀
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Also, I love sharing shops with you that not only inspire beauty but resonate with me personally. Rebekah of @mercy.threads is a mother to 3 and makes these beautiful handmade bonnets, as well as booties! And all in different earthy tones! Go check out her shop and give her a follow, her next drop of new inventory is tomorrow! You don’t want to miss out! Can’t wait to see our little buddy in this! 😍 •

#nurseryinspo #babyboy #pregnant #nurserydecor #nursery Happy Valentines Day my love ❤️ as much as we don’t celebrate this day with extravagant gifts and sentiments (because who needs just one day for that? 😘) I did want to say...right now more than ever...I’m so thankful to do life alongside you. You listen to my heart and hear my dreams, taking them on as your own; tending to them and nurturing them. You put all selfish desires aside for the sake of your family constantly and challenge me to do the same. Men, take note of this for the sake of a healthy marriage. 🙌🏼 I am beyond blessed by the lavishing love of this man and know that every women out there deserves the same. ⠀⠀
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Photo cred: @alisanicholle I know I’ve been downloading everything baby onto my feed these past few days but I can’t help it! Getting all the little things done and ready, including the nursery. It’s finally FINISHED you guys! 😭🙌🏼😩 I seriously can’t even believe it! Here is another sneak peek to try to entice you to come back once the whole reveal goes live 🤷🏻‍♀️ ⠀⠀
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#nursery #nurserydecor #babyboy #pregnant #nurseryinspo As we await the arrival of baby boy #4 I’ve heard over and over again from acquaintances, friends, and family how anxious they’ve been anticipating an announcement. Every time I hear another person remark on how they are on pins and needles for me, I laugh and think to myself...this is one LOVED baby. ⠀⠀
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In that moment, the Father brought to light my last delivery and the real lasting effects of fear that whole process left on my heart. Then I heard the Father say, “The fear that steals joy is not the result of me. The fear that steals life is not the result of me.” And in that second I knew the anxiety I was feeling was a direct result of the fear from my past and the experiences that happened there. Are we to live in the past and let those experiences define who we are today? ABSOLUTELY NOT! There is NO fear in Gods love and the abundance of joy that He has for mothers delivering new life is perfect, blameless, and WITHOUT fear. ⠀⠀
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Waffle knit shirt and denim jacket: @firaboutique My mom just got into town this afternoon to be here for the birth of baby #4 and man do I love having her here. Not only does she make having babies even MORE special than it already is, but she loves on my other littles in the most pure and beautiful ways. I am just so incredibly thankful to have her close! •

Sooo now that your here @heysuuz COME ON baby boy!!! 💙 There is just something about having milk and cookies with you best sibling pals isn’t there? I love watching the friendship between the three of them grow and flourish. I can’t wait to add one more to the mix just to spice things up 🤪 HAPPY SATURDAY FRIENDS! The nursery space is ALMOST complete!!! We have a couple more “little touches” to add here and there but we are officially ready! I mean...not that he’s gonna he sleeping here for a while anyways 😂 but we are MENTALLY prepared at least! More details to come with this space but here are a few fun details to inspire...
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Moses basket: @plumandsparrow ❤️
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